Tea time with Valerie: Recent Comments

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Valerie — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 13:48:30 GMT

Thanks, darlin! I think I'm going to do it as "Move Me Monday." What do you think?

Comment on Regrets...I have a few

Monika — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 22:20:56 GMT

I'm sorry you had a rough time in Texas. I, born in New England, with parents who have heavy New England accents, am obviously not from the South as soon as I open my mouth. I'm glad to say that I've NEVER had that experience in Texas. All of DH's extended family are from there, so I've been to Texas many times. When we fled Hurricane Ivan, that's where we went. All along the way, people were sooooo very nice. I guess I've just been lucky.

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Anita — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 18:44:46 GMT

I agree with Pattie, you can't live in the past or change it, so recalling all your regrets will only hold you back and you aren't moving forward. I think you need to let go.
I did want to also comment on your move, you have to realize that many people move all over the country and world for various reasons with much different results. I've lived in 4 diverse states in my life and I think in life you make the most of what you have at the moment. Looking back you may need to look for the good you found in each place, at each time, but there was likely some redeaming moments.
I say, ok, done, now no more need to drag up these regrets again, or any others for that matter.
You are the person you are today for what you have lived through.

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Pattie — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 15:54:39 GMT

I try to make a conscious choice not to focus on regrets. Hindsight is 20/20, and dwelling on regrets based on choices that seemed good, or were the best choice at the time, is just destructive emotionally AND spiritually. In my view, it's best to forgive and move on.

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Susan — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 13:52:59 GMT

Valerie, I love your openness. Regrets happen. I think we all have them. I think we are supposed to use them as learning opportunities. If we were perfect, we would not be human. If our intentions and actions come from love, then I think we are at least acting on the right track ... even if we end up with regrets.

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Windy — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 09:20:03 GMT

I'm praying for you, Val. Ultimately we can only find true fulfillment when we seek it in our identity as a loved child of God. There is nothing we can do, or NOT do to make Him love us more. Knowing that gives me such peace. We all have regrets, that is normal... learning to let them go and not wallow in them is key. But it doesn't make it less hard. ((HUGS))

Comment on A meme courtesy of my uncle

Pattie — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:43:06 GMT

I'm doing this meme today :)

Comment on Tomorrow's a big day for me!

Windy — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 07:56:38 GMT

Buenos dias Senora Gallup! Have a nice day teaching!! If all else fails, you could just turn on Nick Jr. and let them watch Dora The Explorer! haha!!

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pattie — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:56:45 GMT

Good to hear how God's blessing you!

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Tookshire — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 13:36:04 GMT

Valerie,
*Why* do kids argue over the dumbest things like we are the ones who are newbies or clueless. While this is a cute story, I swear it highlights the most unfun and unappreciated part of being a parent.
Peace,
Jamie (W@H)